IFS-Informed Transpersonal Psychotherapy
Healing begins when every part of you is welcomed home
Hello and welcome!
If you’re here, perhaps a part of you is tired.
Tired of anxiety, self-doubt, people-pleasing, overthinking or carrying emotional pain alone.
Perhaps another part longs for change, while yet another feels afraid.
Perhaps you’ve spent years trying to silence your inner critic.
Overcome anxiety.
Heal childhood wounds.
Change limiting beliefs.
Or become a better version of yourself.
What if nothing in you needs fixing?
What if the anxious part, the perfectionist, the people-pleaser, the inner critic and the fearful child are not the problem but intelligent parts of you carrying burdens they were never meant to hold alone?
My work integrates Internal Family Systems (IFS), transpersonal psychotherapy and somatic trauma integration to help you meet these parts with compassion and reconnect with the calm, loving presence that already exists within you.
IFS calls this presence Self.
Others know it as Spirit, the Higher Self, the Sacred Heart or our deepest true nature.
When wounded parts are met from this place of compassion rather than fear, profound healing becomes possible.
This is not about becoming someone new.
It is about remembering who you have always been beneath the layers of protection, conditioning and pain.
Welcome home.
Hi, I'm Asselle
I’m an Integrative Transpersonal Counsellor whose work is primarily informed by Internal Family Systems (IFS).
I believe that healing happens not by fighting ourselves, but by developing compassionate relationships with the parts of us that carry pain, fear, shame and self-criticism.
In my own healing journey, discovering parts work profoundly changed the way I related to myself. Rather than seeing difficult emotions and behaviours as problems to eliminate, I came to understand them as protective responses deserving of curiosity and compassion.
Today, I support people in healing childhood wounds, transforming self-critical patterns and reconnecting with their innate wisdom, resilience and capacity for Self-leadership.
My approach integrates IFS, transpersonal counselling, somatic awareness, mindfulness and other trauma-informed practices to support deep and lasting transformation.
I would be honoured to accompany you on your journey home to yourself.
Working with me feels...

Compassionate
Together we create a warm, non-judgemental space where every part of you is welcome. Even the parts carrying fear, shame, anger or self-criticism deserve compassion.

Insightful
Through gentle exploration of your inner world, we uncover the protective patterns, beliefs and wounded parts beneath your struggles. You start to see how it’s all connected.

Transformative
As protective parts begin to relax and wounded parts heal, greater freedom, Self-leadership and authenticity naturally emerge. This can feel profoundly transformative.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious,
it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
~Carl Jung
Working with me can help you to...
- Transform your relationship with your inner critic
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Heal childhood wounds and release emotional burdens
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Understand and harmonise conflicting parts of yourself
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Reduce anxiety, overwhelm and overthinking
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Build self-compassion and self-trust
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Regulate your nervous system more effectively
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Create healthier boundaries and relationships
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Feel more connected to your authentic Self
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Break free from repetitive patterns that no longer serve you
Schedule a FREE 30-minute Discovery Call
I know that choosing a therapist is a big and important decision, so I want to make it easy for you. I offer a free no-obligation 30-minute Discovery Session where you can get a feel for my work, ask questions and maybe even gain some valuable insights.
You can book it here via Calendly. You will be sent a Zoom link to join at the appointed time.
